What Dance Taught Me About Touch Touch is enigmatic for many. I often get asked whether I am a professional whenever I give massage, bodywork or simply touch someone. I am not a professional in my own eyes as I don't make money with that. But what I do know is that I am very interested in understanding touch, what works and why. When I think about what makes my touch unique, one thing stands out: I put a lot of awareness and presence into my hands and fingers and that I follo

Most doms are actually serving their subs. They just don't know it. In play spaces I see it all the time, doms working hard, doing all the right things, making sure their sub is having a good time. There's even a term for it: service dom. But when it's not a choice, when it's just a default, something is missing. Being served requires vulnerability. Revealing your true desires is risky. Serving is safer.