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Dommed from the bottom
Most doms are actually serving their subs. They just don't know it.
In play spaces I see it all the time, doms working hard, doing all the right things, making sure their sub is having a good time.
There's even a term for it: service dom. But when it's not a choice, when it's just a default, something is missing.
Being served requires vulnerability. Revealing your true desires is risky. Serving is safer.
Philipp Mitterhofer
3 days ago3 min read
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