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A Warm Welcome

Welcome to Soft Kink, my universe for playful soft explorations of Kink, BDSM and ropes!
An alternative space beyond the restrictions of stereotypes, rigid gender roles where you get to explore freely and discover your authentic expression!

Your Adventure Starts here

Do you want to explore conscious kink and would like some guidance? Then this is for you!

The alternative to online dating!
Dating events that focus on embodiment, slowness, presence and playfulness

Explore the world of Kink and BDSM, playfully, gently guided in your own way!

Upcoming Events

  • Softer Dating X House of Play | All Ages | Queer Edition
    Softer Dating X House of Play | All Ages | Queer Edition
    Sep 23, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
    House of Play, Shetlandsgade 3, 1 th, 2300 København, Denmark
    Dating the Rainbow
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  • Polarity and Attraction - Rituals of Mystery - Ritual l
    Polarity and Attraction - Rituals of Mystery - Ritual l
    Sep 27, 2026, 1:00 PM – 6:00 PM
    House of Play, Shetlandsgade 3, 1 th, 2300 København, Denmark
    An intimate, playful, conscious & kinky series of rituals for couples Love thrives in the familiar. Desire loves the mystery. Rituals of Mystery is a series of three immersive rituals for couples who want to actively nurture intimacy and rediscover each other; through play, presence, polar
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  • Exploring Presence through the Senses - Rituals of Mystery - Ritual ll
    Exploring Presence through the Senses - Rituals of Mystery - Ritual ll
    Oct 31, 2026, 1:00 PM – 6:00 PM
    House of Play, Shetlandsgade 3, 1 th, 2300 København, Denmark
    An intimate, playful, conscious & kinky series of rituals for couples Love thrives in the familiar. Desire loves the mystery. Rituals of Mystery is a series of three immersive rituals for couples who want to actively nurture intimacy and rediscover each other; through play, presence, polar
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  • Serious Play & Unexplored Desire - Rituals of Mystery - Ritual lll
    Serious Play & Unexplored Desire - Rituals of Mystery - Ritual lll
    Nov 15, 2026, 1:00 PM – 6:00 PM
    House of Play, Shetlandsgade 3, 1 th, 2300 København, Denmark
    An intimate, playful, conscious & kinky series of rituals for couples Love thrives in the familiar. Desire loves the mystery. Rituals of Mystery is a series of three immersive rituals for couples who want to actively nurture intimacy and rediscover each other; through play, presence, polar
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  • Softer Dating X House of Play | Age: 40+
    Softer Dating X House of Play | Age: 40+
    Nov 20, 2026, 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
    House of Play, Shetlandsgade 3, 1 th, 2300 København, Denmark
    An embodied dating experience - the alternative to online dating
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Hi, I'm PYT

Pyt(pronounced ˈpyd) is a danish word, which means "never mind" or "oh well," you use instead of getting all upset!  

I am a facilitator, space holder, life coach, and parts-worker. At the heart of everything I do lies a deep trust in embodiment, consent, slowness, intuition, communication, and integrity.

I am here to share the joy and pleasure of BDSM as a form of Serious Play — a way of exploring ourselves with curiosity, presence, and care.

Philipp Mitterhofer

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