🍦Softer Dating - The alternative to online dating 🍦

A gentle space for real connection

This event is for people aged 35-55* So many people are tired of dating apps and at the same time there aren’t many alternative ways for meeting people out there.

Softer Dating offers one alternative, a space, in real life, where you will meet others looking for connections!

We understand that being in such a space might feel intimidating or even scary, that’s why there will be good time to land together and find calmness before engaging with others.

The goal of Softer Dating is having a playful, shared experience, dating is “just” the frame. It is more about connection, about intimacy, authenticity and curiosity. So in a way it departs from classic dating events where the dating part is the only thing that counts. Regardless of the outcome, whether you meet the love of your life or not, you will hopefully feel nourished, connected and joyful!

The evening is split into two interlocking parts:

1) Moments of connection:

You will get to meet a bunch of people during a series of short, guided 1 on 1 experiences.

Little moments where you can feel the other person’s vibe and see if there is resonance:

• perhaps it’s someone’s grounding touch that entices you...

• the small details around her eyes that draw you in?

• The sound of their voice as he whispers into your ear?

• the way they move as you share a dance?

  
  

2) Follow your curiosity:

During the second half of the evening, the space is more open, you can freely choose who you want to interact with and in which way!

It is your chance to reconnect with the people you might have felt some resonance with, or talk to someone you are curious about but didn’t get to meet yet!

There will be four areas where you can explore connection in different ways:

• Move your body: here you can dance, move together or alone, letting your bodies speak

• Share mindful touch: soft mattresses where you be curious about touching and being touched

• Curious conversations: a space for you to get to know each other through words

• Solo time: an introvert space where you can be by yourself whenever you want

This is an invitation for an exploration at your own pace, within your own boundaries, playful and with presence.

We are looking forward to seeing you! *Why We Use Age Ranges

The most common concern I hear from people considering to join such an event is the following:

"Will there be people I'm actually attracted to?" There are of course many variables that go into whether we find someone attractive or not and there is very big individual differences. We can't guarantee chemistry, but we can narrow down the variables.

When you walk into a Softer Dating event, we want you to feel like you're in the right room. Not wondering "wait, is everyone here 22?" or "am I the youngest person here by a decade?" We want people to look around and think: "Okay. Yeah. These are my people. I could see myself with someone here."

That's what age ranges do. They're not about exclusion they're about creating comfort and confidence.

So, in part this is about marketing and making sure people feel safe enough to attend. The trade-off is that some people will be excluded from some events.

For that reason we will be offering events for different age brackets.