"Is there really no alternative to swiping? I just want to meet interesting people!"

That's what I set out to do with Softer Dating, a space that is dedicated to the purpose of flirting, connecting, interacting, cuddling. Far away from the frantic, dehumanizing online world. 
Instead we offer a  physical space for you to meet others in the flesh, eye to eye, heart to heart.

 

I see a deep longing in people to be seen, be met and cared for. 

 

At the same time it can be scary and vulnerable to "out" oneself as longing for connection. It requires some courage to show up.

 

That is why we strive to create a space that feels safe enough to take that step. We facilitate the initial interactions to help you smoothly overcome that first barrier of awkwardness, setting you up for relaxed and playful interactions!


We invite you to join in this collective experiment in slowing down, stepping into the present moment, and rediscovering the magic of simply being with others.

Here’s what you won’t find:

- No formulas. Forget the pre-written bios, the rehearsed lines, or the pressure to impress.

- No expectations. No “what’s your job?” or “where do you see yourself in 5 years?” Just real questions that invite curiosity.

 

- No rush. Just a slow, intentional space where the act of being together becomes the point.

 

What you will find:

- Presence. A space where your attention is fully on the here and now, on the subtle energy between you and someone else.

 

- Intimacy. Experience the comfort of meaningful touch—like a warm hug, holding hands, or feeling the reassuring presence of another—creating connection and trust without expectation.

 

- The gift of being witnessed. To see and be seen, in your human complexity.

Come, leave behind the expectations. Bring your full self, and meet likeminded others.