<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Soft Kink]]></title><description><![CDATA[Soft Kink offers Bondage and BDSM related workshops and Retreats]]></description><link>https://www.softkink.dk/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2026 14:59:40 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.softkink.dk/da/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Dommed from the bottom]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most doms are actually serving their subs. They just don't know it.
In play spaces I see it all the time, doms working hard, doing all the right things, making sure their sub is having a good time. 
There's even a term for it: service dom. But when it's not a choice, when it's just a default, something is missing.
Being served requires vulnerability. Revealing your true desires is risky. Serving is safer.]]></description><link>https://www.softkink.dk/post/dommed-from-the-bottom</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2970ffb2d71ad74fec8d02</guid><category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category><category><![CDATA[Learning]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 14:34:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/a36f35_269d77677a2342e49edf72935881d08b~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_630,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Philipp Mitterhofer</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>